Hi Kat
Its not you that has frightened the hamster, Its your friend. Your friend must have missed her chance of training the hamster at a crutial stage in its life, or has had a bad experience. Its like puting a baby in the middle of nowhere with no-one around, then bringing it back to your house when the baby has grown into a teenager and telling it to say one word in enlgish. Once this has happened, it would take a long time for that teenager to learn human ways and speaking english
The hamster should have been trained earlier and handled not so rough. Hamsters know that they wouldnt stand a fight against you(considering us humans are much bigger) and their instinct is to run, escape from your deadly grasp!
You have to get the hamster to trust you. Once the hamster has learned to trust you, it wouldnt think of you being a deadly threat at wouldnt perform ear piercing screams.
The hamster screams in an effort to scare you(like a detterant, ex. Slug repellent)
Here is a way to gain your hamster's trust
- 1. Allow your hamster to sit in its cage for a few hours when you first bring it home. Then place a treat in your hand. Keep doing this until your hamster comes up and accepts it. When they accept it several times they will eventually climb on to eat it. Slowly and while they are completely focused on the food, lift them in to the air and lay them on your lap with a good hold still on them and stroke their fur. Then place them gently in the cage. This creates a trust bond.
2. After you and your hamster have mastered this, place a treat over their head and make them come and get it. Every time say "stand" and eventually your hamster will stand when you say stand and there is no treat. Remember to give them a reward afterwards. You can do this with other tricks like "paw" only putting the treat in front of them so that they have to reach out and get it. You can do it with "come" or "stay" and basically any trick. This teaches them about you and you about them also creating a stronger trust between you as well as learning some new tricks.
3. Use body language as an indicator of your hamster's state of health and happiness. Body language will tell you a lot about your hamster and what he or she is thinking. The following steps will help you to find out what you're trying to know.
Hope this helps! If it doesnt, PM me
Leafpool