I honestly believe that there arent many that cannot be tamed eventually, but also that confidence is key. Do you know Noo has taken on some hamsters to tame I think when they have been very difficult (mind you would you want to subject your Honey to Noo's taming techniques????
) only joking - a Yaffle, Spuds Mum and Nooboo in joke after Noo spent time at a previous show manhandling my lovely Tabasco.
I was wondering about this Claire after the nibbles you got at Topcliffe - do you maybe use a handcream that would be enticing to hams? Might be an idea to always use the bacterial gel before if you smell 'good enough to eat'!
With our more difficult to tame girls (its always girls for us!) we usually keep them in a tub, which makes it easier to scoop them up, and to put your hand in for them to get used to smells etc. without a house, so they have to get used to direct and indirect contact and cant easily hide away from us when we are talking to them etc.
If you are still very nervous about handling Honey, then you could always bring her to Brockholes and we will take her back for some taming? Not having a history with her we wont have the same level of apprehension when approaching her Im sure, then we could bring her back to the next show.
But I think you should keep at it yourself if you can, the sense of achievement when you both make friends once and for all will be huge, as Gill proved on this thread!