Thanks for those words Suga, its really interesting to hear other peoples experiences.
Putting by some savings is a bit of a pipe dream though, and is one of the things that is forcing the issue in a kind of way. Where I live has a very odd demographic, basically large numbers of wealthy retired people and very few jobs hence extremely low wages but a very high cost of living and therefore no disposable income for half the county and oodles for the other.
I sometimes wish we lived nearer a larger city, even though where I live is beautiful, just so I could earn a bit to put by.
Sorry I'm moaning dreadfully here. I think my main problem is the last 6 years has seen a succession of extremely boring low paid jobs because my area is very dependent on who you know and there are a lot of highly skilled people all competing for the same few jobs as we have had a huge influx of city people looking for the "rural" life. Who can blame them.
I came from Sheffield, so technically I'm one of them except I moved for love
trouble is I moved from an exciting creative job to now the complete opposite.
Right thats got that moan out of the way, now back to the job hunt