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Old 12-24-2021, 10:02 PM   #1
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Exclamation HELP!!!!!! *URGENT*Scared I traumatized a hamster

Hello guys. Today my aunt adopted a hamster named Harmony for her two daughters as a Christmas present. Harmony is 8 months old and I think she has had a previous owner hence the adoption. My aunt brought her home and she was in a cardboard box (from Petco) and we were setting up her cage at my house because tomorrow my cousins are coming over and they will get to take the hamster home. Once we set it up my aunt opened the box Harmony was in so I could put her in her new cage. I tried to scoop her up with two hands but the moment I did she jumped out of my arms. We were in my garage and so she basically ran away and was hiding in a bunch of corners and areas that were probably massive and cold and dark to her. We chased her for so long and my aunt was screaming the whole time and I felt so bad because we had to corner her and then grab her and we were moving a bunch of huge boxes and picture frames to get her out of the spaces she was crawling into. (the reason why we were in the garage was that I have a dog and she barks a lot so we didn't want to stress the hamster out so we set everything up in the garage. But that backfired because of what happened.) Then the moment I picked her up my aunt also grabbed her and we both were holding her with both of our hands and Harmony started screaming and she pooped all over me. We ended up putting her back in the Petco box because we were panicking and so scared that she was going to run away again. Then we put the Petco box opening by the cage opening and slowly let her crawl into the cage. The first thing she did when she got in was she began eating some food and she crawled around the space. Then after a while, she started trying to get out again. I felt so bad because I feel like I held her too hard when I had finally caught her because she screamed and she pooped on me or I traumatized her but I would never ever purposefully hurt an animal (i literally have a pet dog I love dearly) I also tried to be so gentle but the first time I picked up she jumped out of my hands and I had such a hard time holding her because I was afraid to squish her but she kept jumping away when I was gentle. Also, I know that hamsters scream when they're angry, scared, or in pain and I really hope I didn't hurt her. What should I do?? Will she be okay?
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Old 12-25-2021, 05:30 AM   #2
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She should be fine! To be honest you probably should’ve either got the hamster with her two daughters and set up the same day, or got her two weeks before so she could’ve adjusted to her cage. Just by doing it all the same day she’s been out in a strange place and moved it’s a lot for a little hammie.

But just be sure from now on you just allow the hamster time to adjust. As hard as it may be to resist that means no more touching and don’t disturb her sleep for now. I believe Syrians you should leave them for a week no contact then slowly start introducing hand feeding and smaller breeds may take even longer. I’m not 100% sure of the times and after a while I think you’ll be able to decide yourself if the hamster is ready for hands to be shown.

Just for now it’s highly encouraged just to talk to them through the cage so they get used to your voice.

I have to ask though is your Aunt scared of hamsters and how old are her two daughters? Just normally hamsters are considered gifts for children almost to test their responsibility but in reality it’s the parent who will be responsible for the hammie. I only ask because if your aunt is scared of the hamster it may become hard to tame her if your aunt is jumpy. If you’re more confident even getting the hamster out in a play pen and letting the hamster run over people to get her adjusted will help once she’s more tamed.
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Old 12-25-2021, 05:59 AM   #3
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She needs some calm now. She probably screamed out of fear. Stressful for all! Those cardboard boxes are terrible and not escape proof. She won’t be tame or used to you and until they are tamed they are almost impossible to hold without them wriggling free or “pinging” (leaping two feet in the air as they wriggle free.

The important thing now is to let her settle into her cage s as bf ensure she has a good environment in her cage. They actually need two weeks to settle in the cage with no cleanouts or changing anything during that time. She will need to build a nest, scent mark her cage and make a routine.

She will need to be left alone for the first two or three days to settle and avoid stress. This means not taking her out to handle her but you could talk to her gently through the bars so she gets familiar with the presence and voice of an owner. You could also feed the odd treat through the bars - eg pumpkin seeds.

If the hamster is a Christmas present for children they will have to have this explained to them, and be patient. Too much stress can cause serious illness so she does need time to settle. Clean outs are particularly stressful for them. I’ll add some tips below.

Try not to worry - she will get over it and forget about it. But important that things are hamster appropriate ftom now on.

Is the cage big enough and set up safely? If it’s too small it may be why she is trying to get out - they can bar chew and damage their teeth (plus it’s a horrible noise).

But changing cages is also something that needs to be done carefully and not suddenly.

The cage should be at least 80cm long by 50cm deep and not too tall - max height about 45cm. Because they can fall and injure themselves (they climb to the top and can monkey bar across the roof at night).

For now the best thing you can do is ensure

a). There is plenty of substrate in the cage (litter for the floor of the cage). This needs to be at least 4” deep- 6” is better.
b). That there is a good sized house she can retreat to, to be in the dark, and build her nest in. Or at least a good sized shelf (they will sometimes build their nest under a shelf if a house isn’t big enough or suitable).
c). Plenty of nesting material. Plain white toilet paper is best and safest- tear sheets of it into strips and put a big pile in the cage. She will take it to build her nest. Don’t disturb the nest. Sometimes they pouch nesting material to take to the nest. This is why it needs to be safe material in case swallowed or it can cause blockages. So don’t use anything like fluffy bedding - it’s dangerous stuff.

Those are the basics she needs, along with a wheel, food, water and ideally the odd toy like a cardboard tunnel or tube. And extra hide my places. This adds enrichment and variety to her environment.

The wheel needs to be at least 8” in diameter for a Syrian hamster - ideally 11” diameter.

Check the water bottle every day (that it’s letting water out and hasn’t emptied itself) and change the water every day. Put fresh hamster mix out each day in the bowl - they don’t eat all of it - they hoard most of it under the nest and snack in bed from their hoards . But once the food in the bowl is a day old they don’t seem to eat it so Chuck any remaining food in the bowl and put a new tablespoonful out each day. It seems wasteful but it’s a small amount and the food is quite cheap.

You can’t leave the cage in the garage though as if it gets too cold she will die. They need a room temperature of 20 degrees. Which is average warmth when you have central heating on. So she needs to be in the house as it can get very cold at night.

Ideally have the cage in a room where it can stay for some time as moving the cage from place to place can also stress them out and cause bar chewing. Basically they need stability and familiarity abd then they will bond with you as they get used to your presence.

If the hamster is going to another home then you need to get a secure pet carrier - it’s too dangerous to move them in the cage in a car, things can fall and crush them if you brake or they can be thrown across the cage.

One thing the kids can do while waiting a few days - is make some toys for the hamster cage- I’ve linked a video on hamster toys to make out of toilet roll tubes. If these are used for a tunnel though, slit them down the side so they expand or the hamster can get stuck. Same with kitchen roll tubes.

Cleaning- if you have enough substrate in you can just spot clean the pee area. They are very clean little things who groom themselves and wash themselves, and the only smelly thing is their pee - they have good toilet habits and tend to choose a corner of the cage as a toilet to pee in. So spot cleaning the toilet area is just taking a handful or two of substrate out from the toilet corner and replacing it with new. They will also use a corner litter tray if you put it in the chosen corner (put chinchilla bathing sand in it - must be sand, not “dusty” - and then you just need to empty the litter tray once or twice a week and the rest of the cage stays clean and dry).

I wouldn’t even spit clean the pee for the first week as it’s important to avoid stressing her while she’s settling in. Don’t worry about poops either - they aren’t dirty or smelly - they are like little hard seeds - and sometimes they eat some or hoard some - which is normal - they have two stomachs and can redigest nutrients from their poops.

If the poops start taking over a bit after a while you can just pick them out. But the important thing is to never do a full cage clean in one go. Partial cleans are better for the hamster (saves time and money too).

So mainly you can just spot clean the pee area/empty the litter tray once a week. Everything else should stay clean for quite some time. You can wipe out the wheel occasionally - they sometimes pee in their wheel. And just change the odd handful of substrate if it needs a bit of refreshing. I usually find it flattens down after a while so I just add a bit extra - and mix it in so it smells familiar. You can do this while the hamster is in the cage, so they get used to it and feel less threatened by a hand in their territory. You can easily go two or three months just spot cleaning before needing to change out all the substrate - and even then I keep back some of the old clean substrate and spread it on top of the new (so it smells familiar). But don’t clean anything else at the same time. You can wipe it clean any other items at a different time - as and when needed - so something always smells familiar.

So if anything needs tweaking in the cage - do it now then leave her alone to settle for two or three days. After that I still wouldn’t get her out of the cage unless she shows signs of wanting to come out by coming to the door etc. Then you need to have a safe area for some taming sessions until she is happy to be handled - this can happen quickly or may take a while. Depends. A safe area is either a playpen area on the floor, or many people use the dry bath tub as a taming area. With the plug in amd the odd toy or tunnel in their. The idea being she can run around and you can occasionally stroke her on the back while she’s in there so she gets used to touch and begins to trust. And can’t escape. This can actually be quite a fun thing for kids although frustrating as well when all they want to do is pick the hamster up?

Kids should be supervised at all times with the hamster and taught not to try and hold on but let her go - if they squeeze too tight they can cause injuries (and their eyeballs can come out of the sockets and that’s a medical emergency).

So time and patience at first.

Food. You need a good hamster mix. Harry Hamster contains everything that’s needed. And they also need a bit of fresh veg daily. Only every 3 days for the first couple of weeks so their digestion learns to handle it - too much can cause diarrhoea. After the first couple of weeks it should be daily. But just a tiny piece no bigger than 1cm cubed size. They tend to eat fresh veg straight away do it doesn’t go off.

If you put the food snd veg out about 5 or 6pm each day the hamster will get in the habit of waking earlier for the food abd you can have some interaction then. Normally they don’t get up till after 10pm.

Please let us know how you get on!
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Old 12-25-2021, 06:04 AM   #4
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10 Toilet Roll Toys For Small Pets - YouTube

Part of the process for the kids can be learning what the hamster needs. Watching the video above will keep them occupied and making things for the hamster.
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Old 12-25-2021, 06:12 AM   #5
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Safe veg is broccoli, carrot, cucumber, cauliflower, a pea or two. Broccoli and cucumber tend to be the favourites. Treats - pumpkin seeds, sunflower seeds, the occasional half a walnut or plain cashew nut (not salted). A monkey nut (peanut in its shell).
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Old 12-25-2021, 07:01 AM   #6
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The most practical and safe way to transfer a hamster from pet shop box to cage is to simply place the box inside the cage then open one end and let the hamster come out by itself.

Too late for that now but this tip may come in handy for future reference.

I'm a bit concerned about your aunt's reaction though and don't understand what she was screaming about. It may be a good idea if you could suggest to her to do some research on hamsters. Hamsters are prey animals and naturally easily scared so they need calm and reassuring humans around them.

You obviously care a lot about animals and did your best. Sometimes things don't go according to plan which happens to most of us so don't beat yourself up about it.

The hamster should be fine but needs peace and quiet now to settle in.
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Old 12-25-2021, 03:26 PM   #7
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We all make mistakes - I was a bit like that with our first hamster - screeched when he bounced around and got behind the fridge. While he just taunted me! I cringe to think how I reacted now - and how I moved him to a new cage cold Turkey like a parcel - his reaction to that was when it hit me that this little thing has feelings and is vulnerable and depends on me to get it right. It is a bit stressful at first. But we all make mistakes. Hope the above helps.
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