I have emailed her asking what's happened to it - the thing is she knew I was very interested because I'm the one who emailed her asking her if she'd post it (when it was first listed it was listed as collection only). That makes me even more irrtated.
I've sold a lot of stuff on ebay and if people ask me to end early I always say no as it's a) unfair on anyone else watching or bidding and b) against ebay rules. The only thing I would do is add a BIN price (openly so everyone has a chance) to an item that doesn't already have bidders. She hasn't done this, she's sold it privately when there's already someone bidding. Grrrr
Also there was a Cambridge in Sheffield that I didn't bid on purely because I was trying for this one. It went for just ten quid and Will's dad was picking it up for me - and I didn't bid 'cos I decided to go for this Gabber which now doesn't exist. Double grrrrr