Don't worry about what other people think
It sounds lovely living a quiet life in the country. I am someone, who could easily become a recluse but enjoy a family life and sometimes you just need to meet the right kind of people and not people who are just social animals x I am sure you will meet the right kind of people for you living in the countryside, but it can be hard to make a life. When I first moved to a rural area (it went with a course I was doing) from a town I thought - there's nothing to do. I used to do my work sat in a corner of a pub at week-ends as I liked the feel of not being too alone and the social atmosphere and surrroundings but still happy doing my own thing. And gradually a few other people who used to come in regularly got chatting with me (all professionals). But then I found some people were just a bit nosy and gossipy. But a few people became friends - but not people I would socialise with any other way.
But at first I thought - nothing to do here! No cinema to go to - but you find it's different in the countryside - things come to you. We have rural touring theatre that comes to village halls, and there's a cinema night once a month in a village hall. I don't know if you work from home or something, but sometimes just getting involved in some local farm work or volunteering can be nice.
I didn't really settle till I met my OH. But found I could enjoy my solitary life while still picking and choosing where and who I wanted to socialise with.