Advice??

[cypher]

That must have been hard Hamshak, being forced into the situation before knowing if you're really ready but just take your time, she'll need some quiet time to adjust so you can get to know each other slowly, she's not Bulma & never will be, they are all so different which I find helps to find more space waiting in your heart to be filled by a whole new character.

[Hamshak]

Originally Posted by cypher

That must have been hard Hamshak, being forced into the situation before knowing if you're really ready but just take your time, she'll need some quiet time to adjust so you can get to know each other slowly, she's not Bulma & never will be, they are all so different which I find helps to find more space waiting in your heart to be filled by a whole new character.

She has only been here half a day and she is already obviously different. Bulma was extremely shy at first but willing to be pet if I happened to catch her awake. This new girl(yet unnamed) is already out and about checking out her new home. She is a bit shy if I'm near though, I had to set her water right side up and she was very wary of me. I will need these first few days to collect myself and gather my thoughts before trying to really interact with her. I'm glad she is away from that mini prison she was in but we are gonna need time. When I am ready I will make her own post in the Syrian section, I haven't been up to thinking of a name for her but she can't remain sprinkles. It doesn't look like it suits her but that is what the child named her.

[cypher]

She sounds happy to be in her new home, you both need time but I'm sure you'll be the best of friends soon enough

[Hamshak]

Well she has certainly been active while I was away at work, she reorganized half of her bin haha but still sleeping in a corner instead of in the walk up barn house, so she clearly isn't quite settled in just yet.

[Thin Lizzy]

Originally Posted by Hamshak

Well it seems the choice was taken away from me. I think my friend new how I was feeling about Bulma and wanted to help(at least I think that's why) so she went and picked the hamster up and about an hour ago brought her here. I had to scramble to get a bin ready as I had emptied everything from Bulma's because I couldn't bear to look at it after we had buried her. I'm still unsure but how could I have turned her away after actually seeing her, crammed into a tiny little habitrail starter kit, I knew she hadn't been treated very well by the look of the prison she was in. I guess we'll see how this goes.

Your friend did the right thing, this little girl will help you with your grief, take comfort in her, every ham is different. Both of you will need to adjust and get use to each other but, over time you'll bond.

[Hamshak]

It has been a rough few days with trying to cope with Bulma's loss and trying to bind with Zatanna as we have named this lady, but we are getting through it.

[Thin Lizzy]

Bless you Hamshak, you will bond with Zatanna in time.