Hi Amethyst_ice, I'm glad Hugo is in his new home now.
Just to let you know that I too was with my ex on and off for over ten years. He changed so much over the years, got in with a bad crowd, wasn't faithful, was awful with me and frequently put me down, saying noone else would want to be with me. I lost my confidence but eventually found the strength to get shut of him, as he was literally sucking the life out of me. One of the last straws was that he was jealous of my hamster, Dave, and when I went working away for a week Dave became ill. Ex didn't tell me until I got home but I noticed straight away. I think he had ignored Dave - awful idiot that he was
It was a huge step to be on my own as he was my childhood sweetheart and first love, however in the long term it was one of the best things that ever happened to me. Eventually I met my Husband and it is an easier relationship overall where I am happy and not constantly stressed or walking on eggshells. We have each other's interests at heart and love and look after one another. I always look forward to seeing him but I could never say the same for my ex.
This is what you deserve. I am so glad you're not having to settle for less. Keep strong, stay positive and remember you're worth much, much more x.
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