Taming Tips And Tricks?

[SJ_R]

Hello! So, after a period of not having hamsters for years, I got a male Syrian, Boba, on Thursday. I've left him alone expect for feeding, apart from last night. He was mostly curious in the store, and a little bit now, but mostly he's been a scaredy ham, running and hiding from me, screeching and generally being a poor little frightened baby.

Last night, after trying to get him to eat from my hand and failing, I sort of managed to get him on a cushion, on my lap for a few minutes. He had a right good sniff and explore, but kept flinching from my hand. I put him back before he got too distressed, and today he did have a sniff of my hand, but dived into his house when I moved my hand.

I'm afraid that I'm at a loss here. I don't have much experienced with shy, nervous hamsters, or at least I can't remember. The little dear must be so confused and frightened, I'm just a big, scary smelly thing he thinks wants to eat him, but all I want to do is make friends. I want to do this right, however long it takes, but I have no idea where to start.

I don't know if he'd be bitey, but I have gloves if needs be. I also have a large playpen I can lie down in, if that helps. I was tempted to try that tonight, but thought I'd better seek some advice first.

He also seems not to be eating much, which is slightly concerning, especially considering how teeny he is. His teeth looked a little long a couple of days ago, but seem to have worn down a bit since.

Thank you for any advice and help you can give. It will be greatly appreciated.