[Lilafernim]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

Hamsters can become our family so losing one is never easy, and from what you’ve said she was very much loved.

There is absolutely no point in blaming yourself or your partner, you took her to the vets and you tried to help her. The water, again you can’t blame yourself for at all! Even if it did anything to worsen her state, she would’ve needed to drink again to live. So I really wouldn’t beat yourself up over water.

At the end of the day, she has obviously lived a happy life and that’s what you have to remember. I hate seeing my energetic hamster turn so frail and vulnerable so I know how losing a hamster this way can make it so much harder, as you feel something you could’ve done would’ve saved them.

But I’m telling you know, you took her to the vets and you did everything in your power to help. It must’ve just been her time to go, and I’m sure she died happy to have been around her parents.

I hope you find some peace with her loss ❤️