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I'm so glad that Romeo's hair has grown back fine and Tiki's water bottle is working well, too. I am very sorry to hear that darling Zelda is showing the signs of old age. I know that it is extremely hard to watch one so beloved decline from age and illness. Huge hugs to you and Aggie. I agree with what Thin Lizzy said concerning Aggie's depression and fears dealing with the sadly inevitable passing one day of his dear Zelda. Everyone deals with the loss of a loved one in their own unique way, but I truly believe that always being honest and preparing a child for it is the best way possible. I would just let Aggie know that although we always want our hammies to live forever, hamsters unfortunately have a very short lifespan. However, in that time, we can cherish every single moment with them and build the strongest bonds possible showing our love and commitment to them always. Let him know that it isn't the length of time that a loved one lives but the quality of that life that truly counts in the end. I would have him actively help care for his elderly Zelda and make all the memories that he can with her. Tell him that when you love someone so much, they are always with you in your heart because a loving bond like that can never be broken even by death. It might be helpful to let him know that there is a special place known as the Rainbow Bridge for all our pets to go when they pass, and there they will regain their strength and health and have lots of great adventures with all the others who have passed before them. I would also try to create a photo album of all the special moments with Addie and Zelda, make a huggable pillow with Zelda's picture on it for Addie to snuggle with in his time of sorrow or fear, or even create a lovely garden to visit and feel closer to Zelda when the time comes to make it her final resting place. I am SO, SOOOO sorry that this is happening. Please know that we are here for you and your family. I will be keeping you, Addie, and Zelda in my thoughts and prayers and will be hoping that there will still be more happy memories to cherish with each other. When the time comes for Zelda to pass, I will be hoping with all of my heart that it is as peaceful as possible and Addie will find peace in remembering the wonderful life that he gave to darling Zelda. HUGE hugs to you and Addie. Cuddles to sweet Zelda, too.