[Burakki]

I agree with Serendipity. With pets it’s always the matter of feeling and falling in love. If you feel that it’s your little soulmate, go for it. You can’t be sure about having the same feelings for the one you haven’t even seen yet, but being a breeder ham, he’ll be more likely to still get a good home, while hams from pet shops have less luck, as many people buy them without seriously thinking about providing them with proper care.
But even without the possible fate part of the story, I’d say get the one you feel a connection with. If the breeder is a good person, she’ll understand everything. Plans change, it’s only normal.