Just thought I'd update you all after all your kind suggestions and encouragement...
little Nessa and I were slowly progressing with the taming but she had a seizure a few nights ago
..she was lying on her back twitching and squeaking so I just spoke softly to her and sat it out. I then went back to p@h to see the vet there about what to do and how to help her and after only listening to her heart and checking her eyes/ears I was told she looked healthy and to take her home. Since then she has had another fit last night where the same thing happened and now she wont come out her bed. :'( i did try and film it for the vet but couldnt do it in time.
I dont want to take her back to the p@h vet because now i'm scared the vet there will say she needs to be put down. I've only had her 2 weeks but I don't think she's well at all and I'm now even more nervous around her!