i just want my baby back :(

[wofunny]

Today has been very hard for me, i am really missing Smudge

Yesterday it didnt really sink in my mind, but i keep having flashbacks of when i found him... i just keep quietly weeping

just looking at my signature makes me cry.... i wish i could just turn back time



Rest in peace my beautiful baby, i will never ever forget you xxxxxxxxxx

[annie81]

that is totally normal wofunny. cry as much and hard as you have to...take your time with it...try to remember the nice things about smudge and keep these pictures in your mind...

huge big hug from me!!!

[Hope]

Oh Mark, I understand how you are feeling. I really wish that I could give you a big hug.

Try and remember the good times, and with time you will learn not to cry but to smile, I know that seems a long way off, but it will happen and you will feel better I promise.

As Annie said cry as much as you need, is a very impotsnt part of the healing process, just be kind to yourself and occupy yourself with things that you enjoy and make you happy.

Are you going to give him a little funeral?? This might help you to deal with saying goodbye.

[wofunny]

Originally Posted by Hope

Are you going to give him a little funeral?? This might help you to deal with saying goodbye.

No, i dont think i will... i just don't like funerals.

i think i might make him a litte gravestone and put it in the garden x

[Hope]

That would be a nice idea, so that you have somewhere to go where you can talk to him and remeber him (but he will be listening wherever you are).

I notice that you have change your avatar, I like it, and understand that seeing Smudges picture is hard for you right now.

[Ellie]

Each day will get easier, I have no words to comfort your pain x

[annie81]

i really like the gravestone idea...thats nice

[RachK]

Aw Mark I feel so terrribly sad for you. Losing a pet is always hard but harder when it is an accident.
You will feel better in time. Cry all you want, it does help. Give Stella & Smokey lots & lots of cuddles & attention it will help with the grieving process.
You are a brilliant owner & even though Smudge left you in a tragic way he had the most wonderful life. Just keep telling yourself that.
Take Care
xxxx

[wofunny]

i am starting to feel a bit better now, i think i will clean the cage today... as i hate looking at it being empty

i will have to find a suitable rock for the gravestone.

Thanks for all your kind words and comments, i really makes me feel better knowing that i can talk to fellow hamster lovers who know what its like xx

[Rach210]

I lost my first hamster to a stroke when I was 14 and cried about her for days. We buried her under the nut-tree in the garden and I framed a photo of her in my room, looking at it always brought back happy memories of her