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05-31-2012, 09:43 AM
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Senior Hamster
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Bacup, Lancashire
Posts: 523
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Feel so betrayed and upset!
I need to vent if that ok HC?
So for a while I have been helping out with a group that does activities for children with special needs....and the ladies that run it are just lovely. Anyway we needed a venue for our drama workshops and a lady said we could use her venue for free....which was fab of her....with this venue we were able to organise a fundraiser which was last week. Now the lady who owns the venue has gotten to know us and we were becoming friends. So when she got engaged we were happy for her...and she asked my if I would sing at her party the day after the fundrasier, which I also sang for. I said yes and that it would be a gift for what she was doing and giving us the venue for our activities. The fundraiser was a success and people enjoyed my set and commented on my vocals....which always embaresses me...but they said such lovely things about my voice. So when the engagment party came round I was in good spirits and did my best to sing as well as I could. Sadly today someone who knew my mum saw her today and after I left the lady who owns the venue refered to me in front of her family and friends and refered to me as 'The Strangled Cat'!
So I feel very hurt and soo upset....espcially as I did the gig for free as a thank you...and that me and the two ladies called her a friend!
I just feel sick to my stomach!xx
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05-31-2012, 09:52 AM
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PM Fluffy for custom title
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: London
Posts: 1,392
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
Oh! That's so mean. I'm sure you have a beautiful voice! They were just jealous that they weren't talented like you. Don't feel too sad. They're not worth getting sad over because they're stupid and don't understand how hard you tried. I'm sure that it wasn't awful and they should be very greatful. I hope you feel better soon and don't let them get you down. <3 xxx
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05-31-2012, 09:56 AM
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Hamster Pup
Join Date: May 2012
Location: Kent
Posts: 129
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
Oh how awful, people can be so nasty and hurtful. I wouldn't take it to heart especially ad you've had lots of positive comments. Just don't volunteer to sing for her again. Does make it awkward though as you will need to keep in with her for the sake of the venue, just think of the kids and the good work you're doing when you see her. Take care.
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05-31-2012, 09:59 AM
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The Werehamster
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Essex
Posts: 4,324
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
How very nasty. I work with some two-faced people and it's hard to cope with, but just try to remember you are the better person. (((((hugs)))))
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05-31-2012, 10:03 AM
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Banned
Join Date: Mar 2010
Posts: 6,120
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
That was not a nice thing to do. My guess is she was feeling upstaged by you & needed to get the attention back on herself.
Take no notice, what ever we do in life there will always be someone to knock us, but fortunately there will always be more people who don't & appreciate your voice.
Silver xxx
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05-31-2012, 11:09 AM
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Mesocricetus auratus
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
That's terrible! I can't stand people like that!
Hugs xx
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05-31-2012, 11:55 AM
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The Werehamster
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: Essex
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
Quote:
Originally Posted by Silver
That was not a nice thing to do. My guess is she was feeling upstaged by you & needed to get the attention back on herself.
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I think Silver has hit the nail right on the head here.
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05-31-2012, 12:00 PM
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Little Miss Hammymad
Join Date: Mar 2012
Location: Manchester
Posts: 1,989
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
Yes I agree with Silver,this person obviously feels threatend by you,so she felt the need to be nasty!
I hate nasty and two faced people and have zero time or tolerance for them.x
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05-31-2012, 12:23 PM
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Hamster Overlord
Join Date: Apr 2012
Location: Northern Ireland
Posts: 815
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
What a nasty piece of work I detest backstabbers I'm sure you have a great voice she wouldn't have asked you unless you did I can't believe how ungrateful people can be maybe she felt threatened by you (better looking than her and can sing to) take everything in life with a pinch of salt as the old saying goes what goes around comes around
Vicki
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05-31-2012, 01:47 PM
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Mesocricetus auratus
Join Date: May 2011
Location: Hampshire, UK
Posts: 3,111
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Re: Feel so betrayed and upset!
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Originally Posted by Vicki S
I'm sure you have a great voice she wouldn't have asked you unless you did
Vicki
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That's exactly what I thought too!
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