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Old 05-31-2012, 09:43 AM   #1
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Default Feel so betrayed and upset!

I need to vent if that ok HC?
So for a while I have been helping out with a group that does activities for children with special needs....and the ladies that run it are just lovely. Anyway we needed a venue for our drama workshops and a lady said we could use her venue for free....which was fab of her....with this venue we were able to organise a fundraiser which was last week. Now the lady who owns the venue has gotten to know us and we were becoming friends. So when she got engaged we were happy for her...and she asked my if I would sing at her party the day after the fundrasier, which I also sang for. I said yes and that it would be a gift for what she was doing and giving us the venue for our activities. The fundraiser was a success and people enjoyed my set and commented on my vocals....which always embaresses me...but they said such lovely things about my voice. So when the engagment party came round I was in good spirits and did my best to sing as well as I could. Sadly today someone who knew my mum saw her today and after I left the lady who owns the venue refered to me in front of her family and friends and refered to me as 'The Strangled Cat'!
So I feel very hurt and soo upset....espcially as I did the gig for free as a thank you...and that me and the two ladies called her a friend!
I just feel sick to my stomach!xx
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Old 05-31-2012, 09:52 AM   #2
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Oh! That's so mean. I'm sure you have a beautiful voice! They were just jealous that they weren't talented like you. Don't feel too sad. They're not worth getting sad over because they're stupid and don't understand how hard you tried. I'm sure that it wasn't awful and they should be very greatful. I hope you feel better soon and don't let them get you down. <3 xxx
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Old 05-31-2012, 09:56 AM   #3
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Oh how awful, people can be so nasty and hurtful. I wouldn't take it to heart especially ad you've had lots of positive comments. Just don't volunteer to sing for her again. Does make it awkward though as you will need to keep in with her for the sake of the venue, just think of the kids and the good work you're doing when you see her. Take care.
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Old 05-31-2012, 09:59 AM   #4
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How very nasty. I work with some two-faced people and it's hard to cope with, but just try to remember you are the better person. (((((hugs)))))
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Old 05-31-2012, 10:03 AM   #5
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That was not a nice thing to do. My guess is she was feeling upstaged by you & needed to get the attention back on herself.

Take no notice, what ever we do in life there will always be someone to knock us, but fortunately there will always be more people who don't & appreciate your voice.

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Old 05-31-2012, 11:09 AM   #6
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That's terrible! I can't stand people like that!

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Old 05-31-2012, 11:55 AM   #7
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That was not a nice thing to do. My guess is she was feeling upstaged by you & needed to get the attention back on herself.
I think Silver has hit the nail right on the head here.
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Old 05-31-2012, 12:00 PM   #8
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Yes I agree with Silver,this person obviously feels threatend by you,so she felt the need to be nasty!
I hate nasty and two faced people and have zero time or tolerance for them.x
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Old 05-31-2012, 12:23 PM   #9
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What a nasty piece of work I detest backstabbers I'm sure you have a great voice she wouldn't have asked you unless you did I can't believe how ungrateful people can be maybe she felt threatened by you (better looking than her and can sing to) take everything in life with a pinch of salt as the old saying goes what goes around comes around


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Old 05-31-2012, 01:47 PM   #10
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I'm sure you have a great voice she wouldn't have asked you unless you did


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That's exactly what I thought too!
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