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Old 06-11-2016, 12:28 PM   #21
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I am so shocked to read this sad news Cypher that I don't really know what I can say to do your beautiful girl's life justice. I loved reading her thread and seeing the photos of her sweet little face.

It's heartbreaking to lose any hamster that we feel such a close bond with but when there's an air of mystery surrounding their passing it sometimes feel like it's that much harder but you gave her a wonderful life where she was adored and her best interests always came first.

Sleep well lovely girl,
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Old 06-11-2016, 01:09 PM   #22
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Oh cypher, I was so shocked to see this. I can hardly believe it. Dear little Whisp, what a beautiful little girl she was. She had a loving and caring home with you and would have known how deeply you cared for here. The cause will remain unknown but what is certain is that you did not let her down in any way at all. Not for a single moment. I am so sorry that you have to feel such heartache again so soon. But the three amigos would have been waiting for her as she crossed the bridge and will play with her forever.
RIP little Whisper-look back and send a kiss to your grieving Mum. *hug* for you cypher.
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Old 06-11-2016, 08:52 PM   #23
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Thank you so very much everyone.

I am still having bouts of tormenting myself wondering if I could have done anything differently, I just can't help myself but I'm sure it will pass, I know I gave her the best I could & she was a happy girl, when I feel bad I go & sit with her & tell her all over again how deeply I love her & how very sorry I am if I did fail her in any way at all & that helps.

No matter how short our time together was it was so worth all this heartbreak, she was such a special little girl that even if I had known the painful outcome I would still do it again so precious has our time together been.

I've ordered her memorial, a simple little white heart, & I'll feel better when I can complete her final resting place.
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Old 06-12-2016, 02:43 AM   #24
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It's a natural reaction, but it sounds like one of those things that she was just born with a weakness somewhere. You did have a lovely time together and she was lucky to have you. xxx
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Old 06-12-2016, 02:48 AM   #25
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Oh no, so sorry
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Old 06-12-2016, 09:19 PM   #26
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I hope this phase of your grief passes soon cypher, I suppose it is natural like Serendipity says but I have no doubt you gave her the best for the time she was destined to have. The memorial sounds lovely. Xx
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Old 06-12-2016, 09:26 PM   #27
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Thank you.

I'm sure this phase will pass with time, it's always hard but just even more so when you know something is wrong but can't do anything to help or comfort them.
I'm trying to give myself time & not fight all those thoughts & feelings which I know are a natural response really.

I'm missing her so much, it's very quiet in here now, Zeki was doing a little housekeeping yesterday morning digging in his house but he's no match for all Whisper's noise!
It's over 2 years now since I only had one hamster in the house & it does feel very strange.
I'm trying to focus on my little man now & I think he may be getting rather spoilt for a while.
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Old 06-12-2016, 11:26 PM   #28
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I'm sure it will too, it always feels empty without them even if you have another noisy ham! Glad that Zeki is getting spoiled I do hope you recover soon xx
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Old 06-13-2016, 12:11 AM   #29
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You've been through a lot Cypher, I felt totally useless when it was Twinkle, I so wanted to be able to help her, fix her and the doubts I had were many. I still miss her but talk to her often especially the cushion which helps when I give it big hugs.
You're in my thoughts xxx
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Old 06-13-2016, 01:27 AM   #30
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Default Re: Whisper, too soon my angel.

It's horrible to know that there's something wrong but yet there's nothing more you can do. You do the best you can but sometimes you've still got that feeling that there's more that you could have done.

I remember when May passed, I missed her terribly despite still having James in the house. He did his best, bless him (he even tried to beg for seeds like May used to) but it wasn't like having May around.

We're all thinking of you. x
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