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11-02-2020, 02:15 AM
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#31
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Moderator
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Yorkshire, UK but my heart lies in Scotland!
Posts: 28,197
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
I'm sorry for your loss Soheil. It is nobody's fault and what will be will be. Nature can be cruel but when we have done our best that is all we can do.
Gradually the sadness you feel will change to acceptance and you can let it rest easy in your heart.
Remember she is safe at the bridge now. Run free little one.
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11-02-2020, 10:07 AM
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#32
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Banned
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: https://t.me/pump_upp
Posts: 35
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by LunaTheHamster1
Sorry that you are going through this, it sounds like you are having a hard time.
I had an accident with one of my hamsters and thought I had killed him, I was absolutely devastated so I can only imagine how you feel. I was very luck and he started to come around after 5 days. I learnt my lesson, and now I never let that situation that led to his accident happen again. At the time when I thought he was dead I was beside myself so I can empathise in what you are going through right now and how upsetting this all might be for you.
If you feel like you need to talk to somebody I think you are in Iran?If so, I think you can call this this tel no: 1480 This hotline is open from 6 am until 9 pm everyday and its services are reached from all provinces of Iran.
Or, are you able to reach out to your friends or family to tell them what is going on if you feel comfortable doing so.
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thanks for undrestanding, thank you really much,i called the number and i feel so much better now i wish you get the karma of it xDD just god bless you man.
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11-02-2020, 10:10 AM
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#33
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Banned
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: https://t.me/pump_upp
Posts: 35
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by Ria P
You have not killed your hamster.
Your intentions were to give her a good life.
Your intentions are to give your other hamster a good life so don't give up on him and go through with it. Your hamster needs your love, he needs and depends on you to take good care of him. And you will because leaving him is not an option.
Guilt is one of the most difficult emotions to come to terms with but you have to try and forgive yourself.
Accidents happen and unfortunate circumstances can lead to tragedy but life has to go on and the memory of the ones we have lost will live on and become less painful as time goes on.
I totally understand how sad you must be but believe me, your sadness will slowly fade and eventually you will be able to happy again.
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thank you for following and caring about this topic since the start i wish i really had a friend like you next to me,im so much better now,atleast the male hamster reminds me a bit of her,fills the emptiness thank you for all the helps.
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11-02-2020, 10:13 AM
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#34
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Banned
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: https://t.me/pump_upp
Posts: 35
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by souffle
I'm sorry for your loss Soheil. It is nobody's fault and what will be will be. Nature can be cruel but when we have done our best that is all we can do.
Gradually the sadness you feel will change to acceptance and you can let it rest easy in your heart.
Remember she is safe at the bridge now. Run free little one.
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I hope all our loved ones are having fun on the other side ...in no cage,roaming free in the nature,doing whatever they want
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11-02-2020, 11:38 AM
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#35
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Hamster Antics
Join Date: Sep 2014
Posts: 23,533
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
I am so sorry Soheil. You did everything you could. Grief very commonly causes people to feel guilt or to feel they could have done more - it’s part of the grief. But you couldn’t have stopped this happening to her. It is very sad. Even experienced breeders can have situations like this where the hamster can’t be saved. She and her babies are playing free over the rainbow bridge- no pain. The loss is yours right now. I’m glad you have someone to talk to. I had to have some support after our first hamster died. It can really help.
Focus on your other hamster if you can - they can often sense what you are experiencing and can be a comfort to you and share it with you. Talk to him a d spend some time with him out of the cage x
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11-02-2020, 12:57 PM
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#36
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Cosmic Hamsters
Join Date: May 2019
Posts: 2,593
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by Soheil
thanks for undrestanding, thank you really much,i called the number and i feel so much better now i wish you get the karma of it xDD just god bless you man.
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You are more than welcome, I am glad you reached out and managed to talk to somebody and feel better for it.
Take care of yourself.
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11-03-2020, 05:10 AM
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#37
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Banned
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: https://t.me/pump_upp
Posts: 35
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by Serendipity7000
I am so sorry Soheil. You did everything you could. Grief very commonly causes people to feel guilt or to feel they could have done more - it’s part of the grief. But you couldn’t have stopped this happening to her. It is very sad. Even experienced breeders can have situations like this where the hamster can’t be saved. She and her babies are playing free over the rainbow bridge- no pain. The loss is yours right now. I’m glad you have someone to talk to. I had to have some support after our first hamster died. It can really help.
Focus on your other hamster if you can - they can often sense what you are experiencing and can be a comfort to you and share it with you. Talk to him a d spend some time with him out of the cage x
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what i finally did, i attached her photo whereever i could i feel less empty atleast,also after i remade their hole cage,cause she's gone i doubled the space for my other hamster and he's really happy now atleast i can resume her way by making my hamster a happier life thanks for the calming words,i hope noone goes through sucha pain,and all animals playing around in the infinite world with no limits.
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11-03-2020, 05:12 AM
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#38
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Banned
Join Date: Sep 2020
Location: https://t.me/pump_upp
Posts: 35
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Re: Syrian Hamster babies
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Originally Posted by LunaTheHamster1
You are more than welcome, I am glad you reached out and managed to talk to somebody and feel better for it.
Take care of yourself.
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Have a happy life <3
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