Syrian Hamster babies - Page 3

**Soheil** · 10-30-2020, 10:34 PM

I took her to a vet,but she's totally different now,she doesn't even move,her body isn't cold so i doubt its hibernating,she is breathing normal,but doesn't move or moves reallly really slow

**Soheil** · 10-31-2020, 02:05 AM

she didn't survive...rest in peace rose,i hope you be happy forever...

Ria P · 10-31-2020, 02:27 AM

So sorry about your loss but you did the right thing by taking her to the vet.

**Soheil** · 10-31-2020, 05:10 AM

i just cannot recover from her death,she was only 2 months old,it hit me very hard im barely stopping myself from crying,any tips?

Ria P · 10-31-2020, 08:13 AM

I assumed the vet put her down, so sorry.

People really let you and your hamster down badly so you must be feeling truly awful now.

First the petshop or breeder by not separating her from male hamsters to avoid pregnancy as such young age when she was still a baby herself and then the vet for not being able to do something for her.

Losing a beloved hamster is hard and it will take time for you to come to terms with your loss. You are going through a whole lot of emotions just now, grief, sadness, anger and you may possibly blame yourself for something even if there's is nothing you've done wrong you'll still ask yourself if you should have done something different or sooner. We all do that to some extent and its all part of coming to terms with a tragedy.

In time you will learn to live with Rose's passing and her memories, even though they're short, will live on.

One day you may be ready to get another hamster and it may be a good idea to get a male hamster so you don't have to worry about babies.

**Soheil** · 10-31-2020, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Ria P

I assumed the vet put her down, so sorry.

People really let you and your hamster down badly so you must be feeling truly awful now.

First the petshop or breeder by not separating her from male hamsters to avoid pregnancy as such young age when she was still a baby herself and then the vet for not being able to do something for her.

Losing a beloved hamster is hard and it will take time for you to come to terms with your loss. You are going through a whole lot of emotions just now, grief, sadness, anger and you may possibly blame yourself for something even if there's is nothing you've done wrong you'll still ask yourself if you should have done something different or sooner. We all do that to some extent and its all part of coming to terms with a tragedy.

In time you will learn to live with Rose's passing and her memories, even though they're short, will live on.

One day you may be ready to get another hamster and it may be a good idea to get a male hamster so you don't have to worry about babies.

Thanks for the kind words,it really helped me,i guess its gonna take more time than usual for me to recover,cause i just wasn't successfull in making a life for her as i planned,i still have a hamster,the male hamster,im just taking care of him,sometimes idk,its like rose is teaching him stuff,i see him doing some things that only rose used to do,or sometimes he just freezes looking at the stairs and suddenly decides to climb up in a special way,like someone's telling him,idk its just so sad and makes me cry every time,but im happy i have him ,as a memory of her atleast,i wish he doesn't leave me too,i cannot handle anymore :'(

Ria P · 11-01-2020, 09:22 AM

I just realized that Rose became pregnant by your other male hamster which of course makes it even worse for you but you can't change that now. All you can do is learn from it and make sure that your hamsters can't get into each other cages.
I have recently lost a beloved hamster and like you, i look for the things he used to do in my hamster living in his cage now . I think its a natural part of grieving that somehow we want them to live on through another hamster.
Look after your hamster and yourself the best way you can and remember that time is a good healer.

**Soheil** · 11-01-2020, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Ria P

I just realized that Rose became pregnant by your other male hamster which of course makes it even worse for you but you can't change that now. All you can do is learn from it and make sure that your hamsters can't get into each other cages.
I have recently lost a beloved hamster and like you, i look for the things he used to do in my hamster living in his cage now . I think its a natural part of grieving that somehow we want them to live on through another hamster.
Look after your hamster and yourself the best way you can and remember that time is a good healer.

sorry for your loss

you too,take care of yourself and hamster,i hope i can get pass it,but sometimes i dream im playing with her and i wish i never wake up...
i wish more people in my life could undrestand me and they didn't see it was just a baby hamster,its not like i've not lost people,i've lost almost half of my realatives who were really close to me,i'm not a stranger to death,but i never used to be sad like that,be sad like im the killer myself,like i could've saved a life,like i could prevent it happening,like it was just 4 days ago i was playing with her and now she's gone because i was so dumb i couldn't take care of her,she suffered because of me,she ate all her kids and im sure it wasn't easy for her,but she just did it because of my fault,because she shouldnt've got pregnat at that short age...i've watched videos about pets are here to teach us a lesson,i got the lesson she taught me,she taught me to be patience,she taught me to be creative with her cage building,she taught me how is it like to love something because of no reason,but that still doesn't change the fact that i cannot take out the blame of myself,cause it Was my fault and the blame is really on me,when i think she could've been alive,she could've been here now playing with me,this feeling is not gonna heal by time...i don't know what to do,i have no problem in my life right now but because of this,im actually thinking to commit suicide,because i killed a living thing,by being dumb,by being stupid,by not thinking,by not being a human,im a murderer

LunaTheHamster1 · 11-01-2020, 12:42 PM

Sorry that you are going through this, it sounds like you are having a hard time.

I had an accident with one of my hamsters and thought I had killed him, I was absolutely devastated so I can only imagine how you feel. I was very luck and he started to come around after 5 days. I learnt my lesson, and now I never let that situation that led to his accident happen again. At the time when I thought he was dead I was beside myself so I can empathise in what you are going through right now and how upsetting this all might be for you.

If you feel like you need to talk to somebody I think you are in Iran?If so, I think you can call this this tel no: 1480 This hotline is open from 6 am until 9 pm everyday and its services are reached from all provinces of Iran.
Or, are you able to reach out to your friends or family to tell them what is going on if you feel comfortable doing so.

Ria P · 11-01-2020, 01:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Soheil

sorry for your loss

you too,take care of yourself and hamster,i hope i can get pass it,but sometimes i dream im playing with her and i wish i never wake up...
i wish more people in my life could undrestand me and they didn't see it was just a baby hamster,its not like i've not lost people,i've lost almost half of my realatives who were really close to me,i'm not a stranger to death,but i never used to be sad like that,be sad like im the killer myself,like i could've saved a life,like i could prevent it happening,like it was just 4 days ago i was playing with her and now she's gone because i was so dumb i couldn't take care of her,she suffered because of me,she ate all her kids and im sure it wasn't easy for her,but she just did it because of my fault,because she shouldnt've got pregnat at that short age...i've watched videos about pets are here to teach us a lesson,i got the lesson she taught me,she taught me to be patience,she taught me to be creative with her cage building,she taught me how is it like to love something because of no reason,but that still doesn't change the fact that i cannot take out the blame of myself,cause it Was my fault and the blame is really on me,when i think she could've been alive,she could've been here now playing with me,this feeling is not gonna heal by time...i don't know what to do,i have no problem in my life right now but because of this,im actually thinking to commit suicide,because i killed a living thing,by being dumb,by being stupid,by not thinking,by not being a human,im a murderer

You have not killed your hamster.

Your intentions were to give her a good life.
Your intentions are to give your other hamster a good life so don't give up on him and go through with it. Your hamster needs your love, he needs and depends on you to take good care of him. And you will because leaving him is not an option.

Guilt is one of the most difficult emotions to come to terms with but you have to try and forgive yourself.

Accidents happen and unfortunate circumstances can lead to tragedy but life has to go on and the memory of the ones we have lost will live on and become less painful as time goes on.

I totally understand how sad you must be but believe me, your sadness will slowly fade and eventually you will be able to happy again.