Hello.
Very nice site
I bought 2 hamster. I think they are syrians. But I'm not sure. I didn't get a cage for them at first. and they were in a box till they made me do it. when buying the case, my wife saw another one in the tank, and we bought that too. The new one is female. So 2 females and one male. The pet store told us they are over 30 days old.
Now I read all over the internet that the male and female must be kept separated and never mix groups of males and females together. But in 2-3 pet stores I've seen in my life, they all kept ALL of their hamsters in one big tank. Meaning they were all only 'selling hamster'. I asked the pet store if it is ok that we have 2 females and 1 male together in one cage, and he said that it's ok.
The first male and female had no problem and always sleeping together. The third female started fighting with both A LOT for the first 4-5 days. Then they got along. But still the first male and female slept together at night and the third one slept on the other side of the cage.
We saw them mating. The male with both females.
We've cleaned their cage 3 times. But each time after cleaning, they changed their 'sleep place', 'toilet' ... Kinda like each time we put them back after cleaning the cage, their mind got reset where everything was before and they selected their places again.
About 7-10 days ago. 2 females started to sleep together at nights and the male slept in the tube until now. (the cage has a tube connecting one side to the ceiling). The first female started to biting cage bars all the time. And 5 days after that, the second female started biting cage bars too and the first one did it less but still did. Last night the second female got so crazy and aggressive, and biting the cage bars harder. I holded my finder about 2 mil behind the bar she was biting, and she steped back 1 foot, then jumped crazy and bite by finger and I bleed.
In the mean time, the 2 females gathered a lot of cottony, tissue. They took everything soft we offered them and they build kinda a bit nest. Like in 1/3 cage.
Today, I saw 3-4 babies. I'm not sure, cause they were moving them around in pile of cutton and tissue. Some were not moving and I finally saw the first female ate one of her children. well I had read before they do such thing, but hadn't seen in front of my eyes. I was like 'how cute! she is licking her baby' and I turned out 'omg!! blood and the baby got no hand!'. In the past week, all the male did was sleeping in the tube and didn't came out. I saw him once eating and then the 2nd female made him escape to the tube again.
That's all the story till now. I think you must know how I feel seeing that scene.
I read few articles here and I had never thought about this much responsibility .
Please guide me what should I do. I didn't buy them to abandon.
Thanks for your time