Hi,
i think you are on the right track. Read the advice from the wiki here, and follow it. Try hand-to-hand thing (its described there) and picking her up with a roll of toilet paper or a bowl she will jump into, and then you can pick her up.
Usually the young ones dont care that much for cuddling and they just adore running around and exploring the new world outside of the cage.
Just be patient, dont give up on her
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