That's OK, you don't sound pathetic, sometimes I wear gloves because my soap smells of bubblegum and I'm scared of being bitten, I'd advice you to wear gloves, and when it happens that you feel like you trust him more, wear one glove and try not to jump or scare him if he does nibble you a bit as he might think that going on your hand is threatening. When you are handling him fine like that its time to take the gloves of! Hope this helped, that's what I've done ( I really need to buy unscented soap
) good luck! XXX