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Truffle
12-10-2014, 09:48 AM
In the early hours of December 8th my darling girl passed away. When I came downstairs in the morning I hadn’t really expected her to last the night. In the last couple of weeks, despite my best efforts she has steadily been dropping weight but it was only in her last three days or so that she really started not to look well. On the 7th I noticed that she has stopped eating and I knew that her time was coming. It honestly broke my heart.

Mischief was my first hamster. I brought her two months after being diagnosed with a long term illness and I was having to spend most of my time at home. I really thought that I have done my research before buying her, but I had got all of my information from pet shop websites. She came home with me on Saturday 1st December 2012 from my local (non-chain) pet shop.

When the shop assistant opened the cage in which the female Syrians were in, the hamsters were all asleep. I was told that the litter was born on 16th October. Mischief was the first to wake up and she immediately attempted to escape by taking a flying leap from the cage. She terrified me but I managed to catch her in mid-air (and though she bit my finger) I still decided that she was the hamster I wanted. That is why I chose her name.

In our first week of owning Mischief, she had a song written about her. It is basically complete nonsense but is something that we just started singing and that stuck with her for her entire life. It’s difficult if you don’t the tune but these were the lyrics;

My name is Mischief mouse and I smell of cheese,
My name is Mischief mouse so play with me please.
I have whiskers that wobble all around,
And if you play with me then I’ll give you a pound.
Mischief, Mischief mouse.
My name is Mischief mouse but I’m a hamster.

Mischief was very challenging to tame, she was quite aggressive and used to bit a lot. I remember vividly when she had once bitten (and drawn blood) on eight out of ten of my fingers. I nearly gave up trying to tame her but I am still so thankful that I didn’t. I started searching on the internet for taming tips and through that I found Hamster Central and many other hamster websites.

I discovered that in my first three weeks of owning her I made lots of mistakes, she had lived in a wooden DIY cage that my mice had living in. I also gave her mouse sized toys, pine wood shavings, fluffy bedding, a 6” wheel and a non-branded food mix. I’m so grateful that managed to correct all of my mistakes.

The other reason that I am grateful that Mischief was a hard to tame, is that though it took me a long time to tame her (about three months). I developed an incredibly close bond with her, closer than with any of my other hamsters. Any time I went near her cage she would wake up. She was always so trusting and never failed to make me smile.

Mischief was an unbelievably cheeky hamster and always found ways the chew or do things she wasn’t supposed too. She was also very food orientated and was nicknamed “the greediest thing on four legs.” She would often convince me that because there was no food in her bowl, that she was going hungry and that I needed to feed her instantly. Only that when I cleaned her out I found a food store that size of Mount Everest stashed away somewhere. Once when I had her out for playtime she managed to chew a hole in my jacket pocket and she had pouched 9 dog biscuits by the time I realised what she had done.

Mischief was a cereal cage destroyer and chewed through the base of three different cages and when she became bored of that, she started bar chewing. I tried several things to stop her but in the end was forced to buy her a Zoozone 2.

In June 2014 I had Mischief out for playtime, I was handling her and I just felt something was wrong. I wasn’t sure what was different about her but when two days later I noticed that she had a small amount discharge I decided to take her to the vet. She was diagnosed with open pyometra. Our vets advised us against an operation so we kept her on and off courses of baytril and galastop for the rest of her life. We also added probiotics into her water.

When Mischief was diagnosed I felt sure that she was only going to be with us for a few short weeks but she surpassed any expectation I had of her. She fought against the pyo so bravely and when I was reluctant to leave her with my friend (with whom my hamsters usually stay) while we went on holiday, she came with us to Scotland. It was the second long car journey she made in her lifetime as she had come with us to Norfolk the previous year.

I have hundreds of photos of Mischief that were taken throughout her life. These are a few of my favourites that mean the most to me, I think that they shows her amazing character.

This is the first proper photo that I took of her.
http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/0022_zps3db11007.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/0022_zps3db11007.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/d82c9937-b7e1-47f6-9620-4a53551d35ce_zpseac59a4a.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/d82c9937-b7e1-47f6-9620-4a53551d35ce_zpseac59a4a.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/eb8f7ab2-28c8-4208-916f-2cd7f3a3bc0d_zps9aba0f5d.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/eb8f7ab2-28c8-4208-916f-2cd7f3a3bc0d_zps9aba0f5d.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/7a6a8662-16d2-4ac1-ba41-115d8cd38592_zpsa34eb060.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/7a6a8662-16d2-4ac1-ba41-115d8cd38592_zpsa34eb060.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/6e6e96c4-e346-4991-b065-662d55ee937e_zps9963ee87.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/6e6e96c4-e346-4991-b065-662d55ee937e_zps9963ee87.jpg.html)

This is perhaps my favourite photo of her…
http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/3a7d4b40-930d-45d4-af8a-77957f2117e9_zps37a2f10b.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/3a7d4b40-930d-45d4-af8a-77957f2117e9_zps37a2f10b.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/53ba7854-4a48-4894-8d5c-41c123f7d78b_zps963a1824.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/53ba7854-4a48-4894-8d5c-41c123f7d78b_zps963a1824.jpg.html)

http://i786.photobucket.com/albums/yy147/eb9519/e3ff0c43-ff98-4613-b07a-d11d721f07ca_zps72958802.jpg (http://s786.photobucket.com/user/eb9519/media/e3ff0c43-ff98-4613-b07a-d11d721f07ca_zps72958802.jpg.html)

This is my last photo of her that was taken five days before she passed. Although you can see that she had lost a lot of weight (she had lost about 100 grams) I like it because it shows that she was still happy to come out of her cage for some cuddles. Mischief came out for playtime almost every day until three days before she passed. She was just over 25 months old.

I can’t believe that she has actually gone, and although I have been expecting it and trying to prepare myself for months, it hasn’t made the loss any easier. Every time I walk past her empty cage I can still see her popping her head out of her nest. She means so much to me and has helped through the last two years in so many ways.

I know that you shouldn’t have favourites, but Mischief was mine. She is my true heart ham and always will be. Goodbye my darling girl xx

cypher
12-10-2014, 09:54 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss, what a wonderful ham she was, she was clearly very much loved & had a special relationship with you & I can imagine just how much you will miss her.
A lovely memorial & beautiful photos to remember her by.
Play well at the bridge Mischief.

Pygmypuff
12-10-2014, 09:55 AM
I am so so sorry to hear of your loss. When we lose someone close to our hearts it leaves a scar that will take a long time to feel and I really feel your pain. She was absolutely beautiful.

She sounds as though she was a fighter and full of wonderful character. Always remember that, because that's what you have to think of. She was a brave little fighter and she was happy till the end. She loved you till the end. The memories you have of her are now the most important things. Don't ever lose them.

Mischief is no longer in pain. In the end, every battle will finish, and when it comes to death, death always wins. But death is not the end. She lives on in you, and in your memories of her, and in the life she lived. She lives on in your photos and what you've written about her in your heart. But she no longer feels pain or suffering.

Mischief is free.

Goodnight, little one. Sleep tight. Play well at the bridge.

xx

Truffle
12-10-2014, 10:33 AM
Thank you both so much, it means a lot to me xx

TraceyH
12-10-2014, 10:47 AM
Oh she was so beautiful. I love black-eyed creams. Picture 7 is my fave. I'm sorry you have lost her. I'm happy though that she had a great life with you being worshipped and adored!

SiriusBlack
12-10-2014, 10:47 AM
I am so sorry Truffle. What a beautiful girl, sleep tight Mischief x

icklemunch
12-10-2014, 10:48 AM
I am so sorry :(.

Mischief was a huge character and absolutely beautiful. She will be very much missed.

Hope you are ok Truffle. Beautiful memorial.

Sleep tight mischief x

Truffle
12-10-2014, 12:27 PM
Thank you for all your kind words... I really appreciate it xx

Bec
12-10-2014, 12:47 PM
Oh no, beautiful Mischief, so sorry for your loss.

A heart warming memorial and the pictures capture Mischief beautifully.

Do hope you are okay Truffle.

Sleep tight little fluff xx

ANGELBABIES
12-10-2014, 02:05 PM
Hi Truffle - I am so very sorry to hear about your loss. I often get updates on a daily basis. It never is easy no matter how much you try to prepare yourself for the inevitable. They live their lives and then they are gone. All we can do is make sure we give them our best, and you have done that. No one could have cared for Mischief more than you. She was yours, and you were hers. The pain you feel is the acknowledgement of your love of this little girl - she lives on in you deep within your heart. It is brutally painful, but time will heal. Mischief will make sure of that - she will send you memories that will put a smile on your face and heart. Play well at the bridge little sweetheart xxx

Skyblue2001
12-10-2014, 08:22 PM
So sorry for your loss, play well at the bridge little one

Thin Lizzy
12-10-2014, 10:39 PM
Dear Truffle,
So sorry to hear of your loss. What a beautiful hamster and beautiful photos - Mischief may be gone but, he'll never ever be forgotten! Each time I read about a hammie passing, it breaks my heart, looking at Mischief's photos I smiled, laughed and sobbed.
You gave him such a Wonderful life, even after his diagnosis in June, you nursed him with your unconditional love giving him the strength to fight.
Thinking of you at such sad time, sending you lots of big hugs xx

Oatmeal_Cupcake
12-11-2014, 12:02 AM
Such a darling and touching memorial. I'm deeply sorry for your loss. I send you hugs. Know that time will heal and that you need to look no further than your heart to find her. I love the second to last picture of her. She's got the best smile in that picture.

Willow Wisp
12-11-2014, 01:51 AM
Oh Truffle I am so very sorry for your loss.
You wrote a beautiful memorial for your truly beautiful little girl, the love you shared shines through in it.
Play well at the bridge little Mischief x

kimlck
12-11-2014, 05:45 AM
Oh Truffle x
What a little fighter she was.
Play well Mischief xx

Truffle
12-14-2014, 12:01 PM
Thank you all so much for all of your lovely comments. Mischief has been a huge part of my life for the last two years and it is just so hard losing her. She will always have a very special place in my heart. xx

Josie
12-17-2014, 11:30 AM
While we no longer see and hold the ones we have loved and lost they live with us forever in our hearts and our memories.

Play well at the bridge Mischief x

Josie, Daisy and Clover always loved never forgotten, I think of you every day, play well at the bridge my beautiful girls

Truffle
12-22-2014, 10:07 AM
While we no longer see and hold the ones we have loved and lost they live with us forever in our hearts and our memories.

Play well at the bridge Mischief x

Josie, Daisy and Clover always loved never forgotten, I think of you every day, play well at the bridge my beautiful girls

Thank you so much xx

DrKMcK
12-22-2014, 09:38 PM
How did I miss this? I am so sorry Truffle. Mischief was such a beautiful hammy. I know you will miss her so much. {hugs} Pay well at the Bridge sweet Mischief. :-(

Truffle
12-23-2014, 11:24 AM
How did I miss this? I am so sorry Truffle. Mischief was such a beautiful hammy. I know you will miss her so much. {hugs} Play well at the Bridge sweet Mischief. :-(

Thank you Drk so much for your kind words... it really means the absolute world to me. xx

souffle
12-31-2014, 02:48 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. She was an adorable hamster and you did everything you could for her.
Play well at the bridge Mischief x

Truffle
01-04-2015, 10:53 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. She was an adorable hamster and you did everything you could for her.
Play well at the bridge Mischief x

Thank you very much Soufflé xx

Josie
01-05-2015, 04:45 PM
Play well at the bridge little girl you are so loved x

While we no longer see and hold the ones we have loved and lost they live with us forever in our hearts and our memories

Rempanda
01-05-2015, 05:02 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about Mischief. Your post made me cry, it's clear you both had such an amazing bond and you were so dedicated to making her life the best she could ever wish for. It's always so wonderful to hear about owners who have so much love for their hammies.

She's so adorable! Have fun at rainbow bridge cutie! xx

Truffle
01-07-2015, 01:22 PM
Play well at the bridge little girl you are so loved x

While we no longer see and hold the ones we have loved and lost they live with us forever in our hearts and our memories

Thank you...

I'm so sorry to hear about Mischief. Your post made me cry, it's clear you both had such an amazing bond and you were so dedicated to making her life the best she could ever wish for. It's always so wonderful to hear about owners who have so much love for their hammies.

She's so adorable! Have fun at rainbow bridge cutie! xx

Thank you very much. xx