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Originally Posted by Flossypet
If it has been that long and you still haven't seen any sign of her then maybe you'll have to accept that you won't be able to find her  .
She could be anywhere and even if you would literally rip your house apart you still might not find her - she could have gotten outside days ago. |
Yeah that's what i'm leaning towards now... You see a lot of stories of them being found after a while, but normally those include people having found signs along the way!! In a way, part of me wishes she had died, because at least I could have some security of knowing to grieve... it's the not knowing that's the worst!
I'd love to rescue another hamster, or maybe a few mice, as have a great detolf with lots of stuff so could make a great home (though might not go for a syrian again, just as I'd be worried about what great escapists they are!), but I have such a fear of as soon as I find a new one to bring home, her just turning up!