This is all very normal. Whoa! You have a old ham! That’s amazing that she will still use her wheel at this age! When hams are older, you want to make sure that there is nothing they can fall off of that is high. You can also give your ham porridage (oatmeal), baby food (ham safe no spices, pork, ham, onions etc.), and scrambled egg. These foods are all soft and easy to chew. Hope this helps!