Hi and welcome to HC! CMB gave you plenty of very helpful advice, but if you ever have any questions or concerns, don't hesitate to ask.
Congrats on getting Xuli! I love the name. She sounds absolutely marvelous and very friendly. It sounds like she will be very easily tamed since she is quite comfortable being held already. A good thing to do is to begin using the tissue trick. Place an unscented tissue in your sleeve and in your daughter's sleeve for a few hours. Then, place it in Xuli's cage so she can get more accustomed to both of your scents. This will make taming even easier when you begin that process. Good luck, have fun, and I'll be looking forward to getting to know your darling Xuli when she settles in more.