Poppy sounds so funny and sociable; it makes me laugh that she has such an obsession with bald men, lol. Bless little Winnie being so scared of men and anyone who makes the minutest changes. I hope that she overcomes her fears as I know it must be so hard for her to be afraid all the time. I do hope that she will be able to meet your brother soon since I know how important that must be for you to have them bond with one another one day. Both Poppy and Winnie are absolutely wonderful and gorgeous cats; it sounds like they are as opposite as can be, but very special in their own very unique way. They must keep your life very, VERY interesting.