Personality is definitely what impacts how handleable a hamster is,not male or female stereotypes
Even coming from a breeder isn't a guarantee,so it's incredibly difficult if not borderline impossible to predict hamster personalities.
There are even stereotypes of Syrians being the most "tame" species but that's not accurate either.There have been many cases of dwarf hamsters of all species being quite tame,and many cases of Syrians being the opposite of the stereotypes!