[Drago]

It sounds like penile prolapse to me, and the KY jelly along with trying to get it back in would be the best thing to do! If however you can't, it's important that he is taken to the vet as it can become quite painful and even become infected which you definitely do not want. As for the water, I wouldn't worry as long as his bottle seems to be working. Try offering a cube of cucumber if it's really bothering you as this will give him the bit of water he needs. Good luck, hope he feels better soon. Keep us updated on how he's doing