Justme, where are you located? Are you in the UK or elsewhere? I`m sure someone would be happy to take your little girl in given your current circumstances. And no, nobody here will judge you so don`t worry at all about that, okay?
Older hamsters don`t need much expect a nice, peaceful home where they can retire to, so anyone taking on your hamster should be able to provide that care. She sounds lovely and still enjoying life and that`s the main thing. Tell us where you are in the world and we can go from there to try and help. x